Saturday, November 22, 2008
No Substance
Too much fat and too little fat seem to be at the two extremes of a continuum which has most of us with some body fat in between. Why are women at one end of the spectrum written off and the ones at the other end adored? If the answer lies in a purely acquired concept of beauty rather than one which is intrinsic in nature then it will be perfectly natural to assume the possibility of a cultural setting in which obese people are looked at as the ambassadors of beauty and erotic beahviour. In such a cultural setting a thing such as fashion models doing different things to increase their daily calorie intake and modify their life style to accumulate great amounts of body fat will follow as naturally as the starvation diets of today.
We begin by looking at how society values women and at what is considered virtuous in a woman. For this purpose it is important to distinguish between two classes of women -- Those who are married and those who are not. Unmarried women are valued most for their physical beauty. Married women on the other hand are valued most significantly for their industry in house-hold affairs. This explains why fat and other factors which characterize beauty in a woman before marriage tend to lose importance in the face of efficient domestic administration on her part after marriage. The fact that it is a lot easier to be a fat wife than it is to be a fat college-girl should suffice to illustrate the above point. Thus we see that physical beauty is one of the two main attributes that have long since given virtue to women and this attribute has nothing to do with any other quality or capacity that will enable a woman to contribute in a profession that doesn't require beauty. In other words the value attached to physical beauty in a woman is exaggerated. However, this exaggeration has been achieved at the expense of a proportionate under-valuation of other virtues. This leads us to the word "substance" which may be thought of as that which propels an individual to achieve excellence in a domain of his/her choice. It follows that while women today are allowed to have substance and if it is evident it may be acknowledged, it is far from important. It is still perfectly acceptable for a young woman to not have substance as long as she is physically desirable. This is also evidenced by the presence of a significant number of men who are happy to play stalwart roles for their beautiful girl-friends and wives.
Given the amount of suppression womankind has experienced one may say that lack of substance in a woman is somewhat likeable and to both men and women alike.One suspects that this fondness for a lack of substance has translated directly into a fondness for women of smaller size and lower amounts of body fat. In other words the social size of the female gender has emerged in its current physical size. If lack of substance in a woman is desirable, so is lack of matter or natural fat on her body. Conversely, signs of substance in women must arouse detest and so must any natural fat on their bodies.
Foot binding in China, corsets in America and Europe are examples from the past where the emphasis was on the reduction in size of the feet and waists of women. The large magnitude of such practices leads one to conclude that measures to reduce the physical size of women derive impetus from the deeper motivation of undermining their true status as fellow human-beings comprising an integral component of human society.
The hatred for fat and large physical size shows variation in terms of a number of factors. These include differences in culture, differences in socio-economic status, and selective hatred of body-fat based on the region of the body involved.
As an example of cultural relativism one will see that both men and women in South Indian Cinema are significantly larger than their counter-parts in Bollywood and Hollywood. The markedly different perception of physical beauty in this region may have resulted from the tying together of affluence with high body mass.
In case of socio-economic status the emphasis on physical beauty in a woman is more amongst the higher classes where it prevails to a greater degree even in the later stages of marriage. This can be explained by the greater amounts of monetary resources in possession of the family which makes the wife's contribution to domestic chores unnecessary. Consequently there is greater pressure on her to remain beautiful against the run of time. In this context one may be reminded of aristocratic house-holds in 19th century Europe typically featuring plump maids and slender corset-wearing wives.
Most interesting though is the hatred of fat in one region of the body and an equally powerful attraction towards it in another. A big bosom is as desirable as a small abdomen and slender limbs. This is absurd because the human body grows as a whole and not in parts. Any significant change in the size of one body part will accompany a similar change across the whole body. Such contradictory preferences are clearly the product of man-made social forces rather than the dictates of nature and numerous methods and techniques, both semi-natural like spot-reduction and artificial such as silicon transplants have been devised and discarded in order to keep up with them. The fact that the obsession around such practices remains long after they have been scientifically falsified is indicative of the huge magnitude of motivating social forces involved.
Paradoxically flesh offers more delight both culinary and copulatory than bones. But bones seem to outweigh flesh when it comes to certain socially acquired psychological tastes.
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Quotations
- "Give me a gun and a day's exemption from law and I can get the Indian psychiatrist to come up with an excellent diagnosis of some organic pathology in his own brain."
- "By the time the new human-being is 15 or so, we are left with a being like ourselves, a half-crazed creature more or less adjusted to a mad world. This is normality." -- R.D. Laing (1967)
- "In human society at all its levels, persons confirm one another in a practical way, to some extent or other, in their personal qualities and capacitites, and a society may be termed human in the measure to which its members confirm one another." -- Martin Buber (1957, referring to the importance in the confirmation of personal authenticity of human beings.)
- "We will eventually have to develop a theory of what makes all people march before we can say very much about why some people march to a different drummer." -- Bannister (1971, in reference to schizophrenia and other psychopathologies.)
Friday, September 26, 2008
Hero
Hero would be unimaginable without the numerous beautiful duels but I came out of it feeling a little cheated with the character development which I found inadequate. Master nameless (Hero) is an orphan who lost his family to the Qin as a consequence of which he feels intensely driven to assassinate their emperor. Broken Sword and Flying Snow make a lovely couple who had once decided to kill the emperor but did not do so as Broken Sword decided to pull out at the last moment. The conflict in their interests has taken taken its toll on their relationship but the tenderness of their love can still be seen. Broken Sword is said to have transformed from a care-free lad to a man deeply in love and is seen to have an incredible understanding of the true nature of things. He derives his sword-play from calligraphy and sees no difference between the two. A sword of the highest skill, he no longer takes life with it. Nothing is told about his family or early-life experiences and his once care-free disposition might have resulted from growing up with similar buddies. Flying Snow is the daughter of a Zhao general who was killed in a battle against the Qin. This explains her anger towards the Qin and her generally angry dispostion. She cares for Broken Sword deeply but feels betrayed by him in his decision to abandon the assassination. Lovers fight often and often seriously so. Broken Sword and Flying Snow are no different. Instead of a verbal duel they fight with their swords. Alas the difficulty in intimacy is shown albeit in a way that might seem extreme. Moon plays a minor role as a student of Broken Sword. She has much to learn from him, of sword-play and of life. The emperor on the other hand is a wise man who is not wise enough to please all.
The inter-play between these characters is fascinating to watch but some more light on their origins will surely help understand better why they are what they are.
The entire film is shown in the form of a dialogue between the emperor and Master Nameless who happens to be the latest and the most determined threat to his life so far. The dialogue evolves with gripping enigma and through it are shown the other characters.
Hero to me is a film about people seeking a balance between inner drives and external realities. Of brave people trying to make peace between what they experience within and what they experience outside.
A truly unique human experience.
Monday, January 7, 2008
SCG Fiasco: A Letter to Anil Kumble
Dear Reader,
My name is Aseem Prakash. What follows is a letter I intend to send to Anil Kumble, captain of
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Dear Anil,
In view of the recent proceedings at the SCG, I an ardent lover of Cricket urge the Indian team to return home. While this would be a gesture in protest of the horrendous umpiring displayed throughout the Test match it must also be looked upon as a measure to prevent further loss of national pride and the ensuing national hurt. What happened at the SCG was an insult to the honourable Cricket played by you and your men whose pain was felt far beyond the Indian team’s dressing room in every nook and corner of
The inexplicabilities which took place on the SCG and which you already know can be briefly summarized as follows.
At a score of around 190
The role of ICC is to work in the best interests of Cricket. No more. And there can be no Cricket without Cricket players and Cricket lovers. No amount of enquiry, reprehension and retribution can change the fact that appalling umpiring in conjunction with dishonorable and desperate Cricket played by the Australian team has shut the Indian team out of this series. I don’t know how this can be seen to be in the best interest of Cricket or its lovers. If according to Mr. Ponting, sledging is an outcome of the cultural difference between the two countries then how far does one need to stretch his imagination to wonder if the goons in any society could be considered artists? The Indian team has gone to
(1) Mr Bucknor, Mark Benson and BNJ Oxenford apologise publicly for their blunders and are replaced.
(2) The test match is deemed null and void in the record book.
(3) The Harbhajan Singh controversy is resolved in a manner which can be considered just.
Should you and the team walk out of this tour you will not become the first captain to have done so. Arjuna Ranatunga has staged a team walk-off against Australia.
On a personal note and I do not think I would be alone here, I have decided to not watch the rest of this series should it continue. My decision is not influenced by the 2-0 scoreline and I might have liked to watch till the end of the last test even with a 3-0 scoreline provided the Australian wins could be seen as fair.
What happened at the SCG during the last five days is much worse for Cricket than it is for Indian Cricket.
Thank you,
Aseem Prakash
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If you read the letter above and share the sentiment it contains I would like to invite you to join this protest. I believe that a joint and organized display of protest against the umpiring and support for the captain by Cricket lovers in
I declare that my role in this protest is of initiation and not leadership and will be glad if that comforts you.
Thank you,
Aseem Prakash
P.S. You may direct any queries to me at aseem.prak@gmail.com